Wednesday, August 28, 2013

"Grandparenting" Advice

Stormie OMartian has written a book: "The Power of Praying for Your Adult Children"
In it there are two sections concerning prayer for your grandchildren.

                      Five Ways To Pray For Your Adult Children To Be Good Parents

1. Pray that they will recognize their children as a gift from God. (Psalm 127:3)

2. Pray that they will train up their children in the ways of the Lord. (Proverbs 22:6)

3. Pray that they will teach their children with love and not anger. (Ephesians 6:4)

4. Pray that they will be diligent and wise to discipline their children. (Proverbs 13:24)

5. Pray that they will walk in obedience to God's ways in raising their children so their prayers will be answered. (1 John 3:22)


                      Ten Ways To Pray For Your Grandchildren

1. Pray that they will be healthy and whole in their mind, body, and soul.

2. Pray that they will live free from accident, injury, or disease.

3. Pray that they will always live in peace, security, and love.

4. Pray that they will be protected from anyone with evil intentions to harm them in any way.

5. Pray that they will come to know the Lord early in life in a genuine, deep, and committed way and they will learn to walk in His ways. 

6. Pray that they will be disciplined and corrected properly so that they understand consequences for bad behavior.

7. Pray that they will have a humble, repentant, and teachable heart so they will live free of rebellion and trouble.

8. Pray that you will have wisdom from God as to how to be the best grandparent and faithfully support their parents' wishes. 

9. Pray that God will give your grandchildren's parents good health, great stamina, godly wisdom, and amazing patience.

10.Pray that God will show you how to intercede for each grandchild specifically. 






Sunday, August 18, 2013

"2 part Post"

Part 1:-Diet, Doctors, Diagnosis, Drugs, Discouragment?

My journey continues. For years I've posted about my digestive distress and various diets I have discovered and implemented. From eliminating sugar as the "bad guy" to going grain free, taking aim at mainly wheat as the culprit. And of course we can't forget dropping dairy and other "offending" foods that are naturally enjoyed by the normal population! All of these efforts met with little to no improvement in my overall comfort after eating a meal.
Now there is also the visits to gastroenterologists across the nation! I've seen them in Iowa, Illinois, Ohio, North Carolina, and most recently Austin, Texas. I've had scopes, c-scans, beathe tests, pin-pricks, blood analysis, saliva tests and the list goes on. The general consensus being either diet changes from the homeopaths or drugs from the MDs. I do feel I have an adequate diagnosis of IBS, only "stamped" in my medical records recently from the MD in Austin. I am thankful to have a handle on my chronic problem. Unfortunately this same doctor's only and promised "miracle" cure was more drugs. Since February 5th I have tried 5 different IBS drugs, all of which gave me side effects worse than the stomach distress. One side effect is still plaguing me after I have been off all meds for over 2 weeks-hand tremors- similar to what you might see in a person with Parkinson's Disease.
So where do I go from here? A possible "solution" I'd like to try is illegal in most states, except Colorado, California, and Oregan. You guessed it-medical marijuana. It has now been approved for IBS sufferers. Unfortunately, for me, you must be a resident of the state in order to get "in the system" to see a dr. and obtain a script. And I WON'T go an illegal route so that is off the table, for the moment anyway-until Florida votes to approve majiuana as a legal drug. (Then I'm driving there, knocking on a provider's door and "asking for a joint"! Ha!)

But, for now, where do I go? Proverbs 3:5-6 "Trust in the Lord..." doesn't give discouragement as an option so.....
After much internet surfing Hunter and I have found two avenues to pursue. One is to take hemp oil daily-1 T. 4 x daily. Hemp is in a similar family as majiuana and may produce some of the same benefits. The other is another diet. Yes, I said it-another diet! It is called the Low-FODMAP diet. It is currently being studied and implemented at the University of Michigan. FODMAP is the collective abbreviation for a group of fermentable, poorly absorbed short-chain carbohydrates that provide fast food for bowel bacteria and may cause digestive discomfort. 75% of IBS suffers in their program improved dramtically while on this diet. (Let's hope I'm not in the 25% who did not!)
There are a number of restrictions but I won't go into that for now. I am used to "doing without." If this diet could bring me some results I'd "do without" forever! The journey just keeps trucking along.....

Part 2-Keaton & Beckham











Saturday, August 3, 2013

Prayer Works!

5:00 a.m. and your adult son comes into the guest bedroom where you are staying to "announce" his wife is in full labor asking us to keep an eye on Keaton, their 22 month old sleeping son, and handing us the baby monitor. They are preparing for a home delivery with a doula and a midwife and her assistant already in their bedroom.
I grab my Bible and move to an adjacent room with a lamp and easy chair and settle in to pray. My mind and emotions are as hard to control as a run away stallion yet I pull on the reins and settle into the Psalms. Thankfully I've read them many times and underlined in my pocket Bible verses that have held special significance to me. So I begin in Psalms 18: "I love you, O Lord, my strength" and ask God to give Stacia the necessary strength to birth that baby! "The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer" asking God to deliver that baby healthy in His perfect timing! I went from Psalms to Psalms in like manner reading, praying, and directing His Words back to Him on behalf of Stacia and the baby and Jacob. I loved it when I got to Psalm 139 where the psalmist states: "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made: your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Now as I gaze on little Beckham Daniel Stall I know that indeed he is "fearfully and wonderfully made" by God himself!
Oh the joy I experienced in those two hours of prayer can not be fully expressed in words. I shall never forget that precious time with the Lord nor the experience of "praying into this world" our little grandson. May God be forever praised!!


Saturday, July 20, 2013

Time with Keaton in New Jersey

From Indianapolis, Indiana to Mays Landing, New Jersey Nani keeps busy with grandchildren!

                                                 At the children's museum in Philadelphia










In the backyard




Tuesday, July 9, 2013

It's finally time!

We are going into our 6th year of living full time in a motorhome. It has been and continues to be a wonderful adventure with its twists and turns to keep life exciting. God has been our navigator all along and we trust the directions He maps out for us. Lately I've been feeling a nudge from "above" to start  thinking about putting down roots somewhere. For the last year or so that has been the topic of many of our discussions. Where to settle or at least where to stop and rest for a while? We've explored the south with a winter in Austin. Friends opened their home to us in the beautiful rocky mountains, where my sister also lives and we considered that as a possibility. Other dear friends suggested a return to the Quad Cities. But one element was missing in each of these locations: grandchildren!
We have five, soon to be eight, grandchildren. Each one of them is so precious to us and we wish they all lived in one town. Then there would never be a question about where to settle because we'd be where they were!! Unfortunately that will never happen. Two of our three children have careers in the armed services which means they will continue to relocate for 6-8 more years. We will, of course, follow them around either in our RV or in a plane where ever they go and spend time with them and their children. But we can't put down roots with either one of them now since those roots would be uprooted way too often and at our age the "plants" might whither and wrinkle more than they already have wrinkled. Ha!
We do have one child, Branden, who is settled, in fact starting a new career in a week. He and his family are not planning to move. They like where they live and plan to raise their children, our grandchildren, in one spot through high school. Their location?-Indianapolis, Indiana. OK. I'm going to hear from those friends who know me that there is snow there-remember? Midwest weather is not perfect. I know, but weather has become less of a factor and being near family more important.

The Lord has directed us to a 55+ community just 15 minutes from where Branden and Brooke live. It is an active adult community where the outside of the houses are maintained, features a club with a pool, fitness area, tennis courts, as well as a number of club offerings, including biking, tennis, ping pong, and Bible studies. Here is the website if you are interested: http://www.delwebb.com/communities/in/fishers/britton-falls/11908/index1.aspx#.Udy0dhaA3zI

We are purchasing the smallest model, since we will still keep our RV, which we will continue to use to visit the rest of the grandchildren and for travel and volunteer work. After all, I don't own anything to put in a house at the moment so I want as little space as possible to decorate. Ha!

We are excited about meeting new friends, establishing a church community, locating doctors, a dentist, hair stylist, etc-all those "staples" that one has in a home community.

We are also hoping that our friends will plan a visit to the Indianapolis area and come stay with us. Even though the house will be small it will definitely have a second bedroom!

The house won't be done until March of 2014, which is fine with us since we will be traveling until then anyway. We'll keep you updated on its progress and as of next spring the welcome mat will be in place!

Sunday, June 23, 2013

4th birthday, etc!








                                              A grandchild's smile is sunshine to the soul!