Saturday, May 24, 2014

Surgery "Saga"

After years and years of "postponing" the inevitable I have a surgery date of June 16th for knee, or partial knee, replacement. One day I am happy about it because the pain definitely limits my activity level. On another day I'm fearful of the process, especially the aftermath of pain, since I can not take narcotic medications! Yet on another day I can identify my feelings as simply a case of "nervousness". On those days my hands tremor more violently than usual. On the day of surgery I'll need to wear a straight jacket to remain still enough to sedate! 
I saw my anesthesia doctor this week who said, after I shared with him my PD tremors, that not to worry, "All the ladies tremor when he's around!" Love his sense of humor and feel confident in his ability to keep me "asleep" for the necessary time and appreciate his concern for prescribing me pain meds that will not cause me extreme nausea!
God has led me to a place of high quality medical care with caring and competent doctors and for this I give Him praise! I am reminded of the verse in Deuteronomy 31:8 which says:
"The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you, He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid, do not be discouraged."
Also the verse in Philippians 4:19
"My God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus."

He know my needs and He knows your needs today. Give them all over to the one who can actually to something about them!!

Friday, May 2, 2014

A Better Perspective

A frequent flyer's advice: avoid the JFK airport in your travels like you'd a car crash, a rotten tooth, or as the cliche goes-the plague!
It's dirty!
It's crowded!
It's confusing!
It's "time-saving"  new procedures border on asinine & ridiculous!
It's directional signs are non-existent!
It's airtrain system archaic!
It's plane maintenance system poor with little to no passenger communication!
It's restrooms unkept!

I could go on but I think you "get the picture". 

Ater a long overseas flight from Venice I arrived at JFK airport around 4:00 p.m. (US time, 11:00 p.m. Italian time).; tired as usual but ready for the customs regime and locating my connecting flight.
What I found was an hour and 1/2 herded in long lines through a new and "more efficient" check-in system, with NO restroom access!
Following that torture was riding an airtrain system for 30 minutes the WRONG way until I finally located the train's schedule.
Getting off the airtrain I found terminal 2, which was the location of my gate, could be accessed only through a torrential downpour, since construction was not done on any connecting building. I then ran through 6 inch deep puddles resulting in soaked feet!
Arriving at my gate I discovered an hour delay. OK, that was normal. After boarding the plane I dozed in and out of light sleep as I waited for take off. After 2 1/2 hours sitting on the tarmack the flight was canceled sighting engine problems!
My body clock now was registering 5:00 a.m. Somewhere I had lost a day! Like sheep, we were then led to a help desk where we waited our turn to locate another flight to our final destinations. Mine was not until the next late afternoon so I was given a hotel voucher and directed to the exit door, where I could find a taxi in the torrential downpour! I was told my checked bag would be forwarded to my flight the following day. For some strange reason I failed to trust their reassurance that I would eventually see that bag!
A half an hour later I was again in a long line, this time at the hotel waiting for room availability. By this time I felt like the "walking dead" and had trouble focusing on answering questions when it was my turn to register. Finally, at 1:00 am US time and 8:00 am Italian time I wearily claimed a room, a hot bath, and clean sheets, ( I think or who even cares)!

Now, sitting and reflecting on this experience, I am wondering how, as a Christian, could I view this two/three day journey to get home in a better "light".
Were there blessings I could attribute to God.? Yes!
1. I was able to make it to a restroom after the 1 1/2 hour custom lines!
2. I had a long layover allowing me the necessary time to ride the airtrain the wrong way!
3. My arthritic knee held out well through miles of walking.
4. Last minute decision to take my rain/wind jacket along, which I desperately needed several times!
5. Kind assistant who rebooked my flight and gave me careful instructions about locating a taxi.
6. A stranger who helped me hail a taxi.
7. A hotel room with a Hot Bath, (a real luxury I love)
8. Restful night's sleep.
9. Time to read a good Christian novel about Job, of all people. (Now THAT guy had troubles!)
10. A loving husband always available by phone to be a listening ear and jolly on the spot for pick-up!
11. My luggage arrived on an earlier flight, ahead of me and was just waiting for me to arrive and pick it up!!

Notice my blessings are a longer list than my troubles. Isn't that God's way? I now feel so much better about my return trip and have learned a valuable lesson. God provides more than we can imagine if we will just open our eyes to His blessings and give Him the credit He deserves! That brings to mind the following verse:
"Do everything without complaining  or arguing so that no one can criticize you,
Live clean innocent lives as children of God, shining like stars in the universe,
In this crooked and perverse generation, holding firm to the Word of God."
Philippians 2: 14-16

So next time you have the "opportunity" to fly through JFK on your travels remember God may have some real blessings in store for you!

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Friends

Recently Rebecca had the privilege of playing tour guide for her two best friends visiting from California for 9 days. I also had the awesome opportunity to get better acquainted with these lovely Christian women. God has blessed my daughter with awesome friend relationships and for this I am so grateful to Him! (As an army wife friendships play a vital role in your "sanity" when husbands are deployed.) As I watched these ladies interact I was reminded of the special gift God gives each of us in friends and how often we take them for granted. 
Solomon wrote about friends in several proverbs: Pro. 17:17 (A friend loves at all times), Pro. 18:24 (..there is a friend that sticks closer than a brother.), Pro. 27:10 (Do not forsake your friends..)
God has blessed me with rich friendships throughout the world and I pray I will never "forsake" them but continually nurture the relationships and lift them up in prayer as God lays them and their needs on my heart. So for those of you reading this blog, thank-you for being my friend and may God richly bless you as you serve Him. Today, thank God for friends!


These three brothers are becoming "fast" friends!



Thursday, April 10, 2014

Update on physical challenges & spiritual goals.

Current physical challenges:

PD (Parkinson's Disease) is a slow degenerative disease of the mind and body. The first identifying symptoms are generally motor related and in my case are resting hand tremors. Although there is no cure as of yet there are a truck load of various medications to manage the symptoms. Unfortunately these meds all carry adverse side effects. Thankfully, at this point, I do not have to jump on the med wagon. I manage the hand tremors well, except at night when they often keep me awake longer than I'd like. Currently my struggle is more with the non-motor PD caused difficulties, which often can not be managed with meds; such as loss of smell, (a minor one but frustrating when you like to cook!), sleeping struggles (many groggy days), and an overactive bladder (leave this to your imagination!)

Current spiritual goals:

In reading 2 Peter 1:5-11 I have been challenged with 8 spiritual qualities I want to more thoroughly cultivate in this season of my life:
1. Faith (especially in what God wants for me through this disease)
2. Goodness
3. Knowledge of the scriptures
4. Self-control (of emotions, diet, tongue)
5. Perseverance (especially with exercise regime related to my disease & keeping my body a clean temple for the Holy Spirit)
6. Godliness (in what I watch and read and participate in)
7. Kindness
8. Love 

"For if you do these things, you will never stumble and you will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ." 2 Peter 1:10-11

I want to hear "well done, good and faithful servant" from the lips of Jesus!



Saturday, April 5, 2014

The Good, Bad, & Best of spring in Italy!

The Good!

The sun is shining.
The 70 degree sunshine pulls you outside to play.
The blooming flowers are gorgeous.



The Bad!

Allergies: head feels like it is stuffed with cotton (probably true since cotton wood trees are everywhere!)

The Best!
Home school outings with the grandchildren: The Butterfly Park









Psalm 104:24
"How many are your works, Lord! In wisdom you made them all; the earth is full of your creatures."

Monday, March 31, 2014

Music-food for the soul!

"Sing to Him, sing praise to Him; tell of all His wonderful acts!" Psalm 105:2

Why would a "believer" listen to any music except that which praises our Lord? 
When I race walk I love to commune with God through music. Recently He has given me encouragement through three special songs:

"Light House" by Rend Collective

"Need You Now" by Plumb

"Blessings" by Laura Story

Music is a special gift sent directly from a loving God to bless our souls and allow us to rejoice as we worship Him!


Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Time with the grandchildren living in Italy!



Painting homemade wind chimes

   
Home school projects


  
Picnic at the park


Gelato "fun"




Laughter



Watching and interacting with these beautiful little ones each day fills me with joy and renews my hope in God, and God's Word says that "...those who hope in The Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings of eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." Isaiah 40:31
So I am getting stronger and soaring, running and walking, (even with an arthritic knee!)

Look for the face of God in the next child you see!!