What do you do well?

Once upon a time there where two newly weds honeymooning on a small lake in Nebraska in a quaint cabin complete with a sky boat. On the first day of their honeymoon the groom skied "circles" around the frustrated bride. On the second day of the honeymoon the groom bowled high scores while the bride threw gutter balls. This pattern of the groom "performing well" in most anything he attempted while the bride seemed always to fall short has continued for 40 plus years. The reality of this truth runs the gammit of all paddle sports, water activities, cards, board games, mind games,  even a recent attempt at darts!. God has gifted the groom with extreme coordination and logic and analytical skills that serve him well.
So where does that leave the bride? In a constant state of searching for what she does well. That search, spanning years, has unsuccessfully dipped into the "bins" of quilting and various sewing attempts, small crafts, such as card making and scrapbooking, playing musical instruments. Even time spent in the kitchen baking, which is fun, doesn't qualify as something she "does well" because most anyone can follow a recipe!
The phrase "doing something well" can be interpreted in a multitude of ways but for the bride it means winning at a game or two, or creating something to be admired, or just knowing you are "doing well" at a chosen activity-feeling a sense of accomplishment in meeting someone's needs, even if it is only your own.
After the last game of darts, which caused the bride to quit in frustration, she decided to take this "thorn in her flesh" to the Lord. Guess what He revealed-a prideful heart that needed confession but also something she could do well-prayer! That is something we can all do well. After all we are admonished in 1 Thessalonians 1:15 to "Pray without ceasing." When you do something unceasingly you will obviously improve. So now, when feelings of failure in "competition" creep up, she immediately defaults to prayer. In fact she has become more aware of the joy in praying at all times, learning to embrace who God has called her to be- not a champion "pickle ball competitor" but a prayer warrior!